5 Common Phrases That Show You Lack Confidence
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Sometimes, we all say things, unfortunately, that can make people judge us negatively. And in this video, I want to talk about things that make you come across as lacking in confidence because these phrases are arrogant. As you may know, it's the most arrogant people who are oftentimes the most insecure. So I'm gonna give you five phrases in this video that will make you come across as lacking in confidence and what you can say instead to not come across that way. The first phrase is "Obviously." Also related to "Obviously" is, "Oh, that's not hard to tell" or "I already knew that."
Now, of course, you can use these phrases in other areas of your life but if you find yourself saying this after someone has told you something that they thought was novel and interesting to you, you are essentially dismissing what they said. You're saying, "Your perspective has nothing new to add. I already knew that. It was so obvious to me and I am so smart for having known this before you told me." Now, what should you do in the scenarios where someone is telling you something that you already knew? You put yourself on the same path as them; you are two learners.
0:24 Saying the phrase, "Obviously" as a reply
1:28 Coming across as arrogant when giving advice
2:34 Using the word "real" like it's absolute
3:20 Disagreeing with someone by starting with "No, but..."
4:53 Assuming that your life is more difficult than someone else
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Sometimes, we all say things, unfortunately, that can make people judge us negatively. And in this video, I want to talk about things that make you come across as lacking in confidence because these phrases are arrogant. As you may know, it's the most arrogant people who are oftentimes the most insecure. So I'm gonna give you five phrases in this video that will make you come across as lacking in confidence and what you can say instead to not come across that way. The first phrase is "Obviously." Also related to "Obviously" is, "Oh, that's not hard to tell" or "I already knew that."
Now, of course, you can use these phrases in other areas of your life but if you find yourself saying this after someone has told you something that they thought was novel and interesting to you, you are essentially dismissing what they said. You're saying, "Your perspective has nothing new to add. I already knew that. It was so obvious to me and I am so smart for having known this before you told me." Now, what should you do in the scenarios where someone is telling you something that you already knew? You put yourself on the same path as them; you are two learners.
0:24 Saying the phrase, "Obviously" as a reply
1:28 Coming across as arrogant when giving advice
2:34 Using the word "real" like it's absolute
3:20 Disagreeing with someone by starting with "No, but..."
4:53 Assuming that your life is more difficult than someone else
Connect With Us Further:
Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com
Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand
Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):
Instagram: @CharlieHoupert
Instagram: @IamBenAltman
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