Self abandonment is an OLD relational operating system

If you feel like you're always abandoning yourself, even when you desperately don't want to, this is why.

I've discovered a pattern running underneath the way many if us relate, quietly and constantly, that says: in order to feel safe, I have to meet their needs, fix their problems, say yes when I mean no.

For me, it was like I couldn't feel safe unless the outside world is okay with my existence.

That's one relational operating system. It was built before you had any say in the matter. It is old and unhelpful IF you are ready to create a life that feels more free and exciting.

The solution is rebuilding a relational operating system from the 'inner standing', the unshakable inner wisdom that's been there all along.

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