Is There Any Hope For Men To Navigate Around Modern Women?

A. Harper's Full Question and Comment:
Hey I've been listening to your channel and others like 33 Secrets, Better Bachelor, Entrepreneurs in Cars, and Re-Runs of Tom Leykis...
It's been about a couple of years, but it has pretty much consumed me on how I date and what constantly eats up my attention. I had a similar experience a few years ago when I realized that I'm an atheist, but that's a topic for a different time. How do I take this knowledge and not become bitter? All the Blue Pilled Fantasies have pretty much been destroyed.. my ideas of the "one" they're gone, you guys pretty much took it to the back of the barn and shot it. I'm leaning more to you right now because I tried 33 Secrets' and Entrepreneurs in Cars' dating rotation idea, and that put my health at risk. I had an old flame who showed no STD symptoms reach out and tell me she has HSV2 also known as Genital Herpes. I tested right away and came back clean, but it's left a very sour taste in my mouth. I've tried to get girls that I date to show me that they've been tested, but to no avail. It's literally a mood killer, and the ones who do promise to get tested keep postponing it, and eventually lose interest in me. I also notice insisting on dental dams for cunnilingus and flavored condoms for blowjobs turn women off, and every girl I've slept with has been surprised that I voluntarily put a condom on... these girls never ask, which makes me wonder how many cream pies the average woman has? Ewwww! It sucks because there's this college girl who's 22 that swiped on me on Tinder that I've been talking a lot to for the past couple of weeks, who's easily a 7.5 without makeup and could easily be an 8 or 9 dolled up, very interested in me (I got to see previews of some of the goods she plans on bringing when doing monkey double back flips on me if I cook her dinner since the restaurants in our area are closed due to trying to prevent the spread of the current epidemic). I just have no plans of just hitting it, without knowing what all she has.

Another thing I've noticed is you were right, most women expect us to offer everything and they just have to be there as good enough on their end. My longest relationship that I ended was 5 years long. I thought my ex was all for equality but I was wrong. We keep in touch and she's appalled that I date multiple people and keep my options open. She asked me what I was looking for to be in a long term relationship again to settle down with one of these girls and stop being an F-Boy Player, and I told her. I basically want a woman who will value my time equally to theirs, who doesn't expect me to pay for dates (going Dutch/ splitting the bill), who doesn't expect me to help pay bills, and if we decide to cohabitate, that they'll pay half the rent, utilities, groceries, and pay 100% their own debt, and I was surprised to hear her scorn me... saying I wasn't being a gentleman, and I offered no benefits to being in a relationship with any woman.. This came to a somewhat shocker since she's borderline feminist, she claims to believe in equality; though I wasn't too surprised since when she wanted me to propose when we were dating, to buy the ring, and put a mortgage in my name and sell a small home that is paid for that I own which was part of the reasons why I left her in the past.

The Red Pill has also helped open my eyes and see and look back at my parents' relationship! My mom has no respect for my father at all, Nags him when they're together (they both truck drive but for different companies), and has pretty much caused my dad dry spells when she's withheld the P-Sleeve. She's also attempted to apologize to me and my little brother over the phone for the past in some bad upbringing moments, but shifts all the blame to my dad. It's never a sincere apology. Recently when she visited (I'm 28 and don't live at home with my parents), she over heard you and basically went on to insult you saying you were very bitter, and that no one's hurt me and that listening to you will get me depressed. She never said what you said was wrong, only that you were arrogant, and basically threw in a NAWALT comment. She also sees no problem with me wasting my money on girls if I date with a purpose, and thinks it's wrong if I make them go Dutch! She ended the conversation by basically saying she didn't raise an a-hole, that she expected me to be a gentleman!

With how divorce is like, and my own father confirming his previous marriage financially ruined him (before my mom), I'm terrified Coach. But I don't know how to do casual hook ups, or Dutch Dates safely. We have #MeToo, STDs, Societal Norms, to basically fight... I don't see you advocating for love dolls, but how do I navigate as a 28 year old man, never married, no kids, STD Free, in this life? It's really bringing me down, and getting me upset. I just want some really good advice, that would be greatly appreciated.

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