The Terror of a 'No'
We miss out on the finest opportunities of our lives because of an underlying terror of a very short word. We should overcome the fear.
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“There are many things we want to ask of other people. We want to ask for a job, for money, a chance to collaborate, a kiss.
But we often don’t ask because of The Terror of a ‘No’.
Why should a ‘no’ – such a small and innocuous word – prove quite so painful, so hard to hear, so much something we’d rather die in penury, ignored and unfulfilled than ever encounter?
It’s because it’s not a case of trying not to hear a ‘no’. What we are trying to do is avoid hearing something quite different: that we’re disgusting…”
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Produced in collaboration with:
Tracy Foster
http://www.tracyfoster.co.uk
Co-directed & produced by Tracy Foster & Simon Biggs
Animation by Simon Biggs
Sound Design by Howard Sinden #TheSchoolOfLife
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“There are many things we want to ask of other people. We want to ask for a job, for money, a chance to collaborate, a kiss.
But we often don’t ask because of The Terror of a ‘No’.
Why should a ‘no’ – such a small and innocuous word – prove quite so painful, so hard to hear, so much something we’d rather die in penury, ignored and unfulfilled than ever encounter?
It’s because it’s not a case of trying not to hear a ‘no’. What we are trying to do is avoid hearing something quite different: that we’re disgusting…”
You can read more on this and other subjects here: https://goo.gl/QTFQ48
MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE
Watch more films on SELF in our playlist:
http://bit.ly/TSOLself
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Feel free to follow us at the links below:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/
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CREDITS
Produced in collaboration with:
Tracy Foster
http://www.tracyfoster.co.uk
Co-directed & produced by Tracy Foster & Simon Biggs
Animation by Simon Biggs
Sound Design by Howard Sinden #TheSchoolOfLife
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