What do women WANT and WHY: 7 core, foundational sexual desires of women explained
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From my in depth analysis of my own fantasies and also the themes I have observed in popular culture movies, tv shows, books and romance novels that resonate with women I will explain to you 7 things that answer the age old question What Do Women Want and WHY.
1. They want to be a wild stallion who can't be tamed except for by the strongest alpha man.
WHY? The more alpha you are as a woman the more alpha your guy has to be. The strongest guy is the guy you can count on to give you and your offspring the best chances for survival as well as a good chance of having strong genes. Knowing you have warded off weaker guys and attracted only the strongest guy capable of taming you creates an intense mental mindgasm.
2. They want masculinity
WHY? Men were the key to her safety and protection in less civilized society and can be again if things were to devolve here due to their superior strength on average. Women want their best bet for someone CAPABLE of protecting them and their offspring. The best bet is a guy who can handle himself in society and among other guys and rise to the top or at least higher up on the pecking order. Those qualities that allow him to rise to the top are seen by women as masculinity.
3. They want ownership by one man-the fantasy underneath monogamy and true love.
WHY? It's safest to raise a baby under the protection of one strong man who is very devoted to you and your offspring. Women feel this pull and longing for union with one strong man who will protect them and keep them and the baby safe. They crave deep devotion, union, and respect for this one man. This is the fantasy of "true love" that women are lured to like a moth to a flame.
4. They often crave an even darker side of ownership that veers towards objectification, control and other darker things for their femininity and beauty
WHY? Bad guys can protect you just as well as the good guys. Maybe it is a trait some women inherited that allowed their ancestors to survive abusive life situations or even be attracted to these powerful strong but bad men and scenarios, like mice attracted to cats.
5. They want competition over them and for them by men.
WHY? Competition allows the fittest to rise to the top and show off their traits. This display of these traits is extremely mentally satisfying for women.
6. They want aggressive, wild, intense passionate sex
WHY? It's truly living, it's exciting, it's an emotional roller coaster. Also I believe women often crave a sexual "story line" to engage their brain to the maximum. When the story line mirrors these deep primal fantasies that they often have deep down it is maximally explosive for women.
7.They want deep emotional trust and vulnerability to heal deep wounds they hide
This is the one societally acceptable deep female desire. Romance is based on this desire. So conveniently I believe women hide all of their fantasies usually but this one. Then men get the wrong idea thinking this is ALL women want. This one is as kinky as any of the others and they do crave it. But it is not ALL they crave. But deep vulnerability is acceptable for women to crave for whatever reason. The other darker ones are much harder to admit.
WHY? I don't know. They crave being sexually healed by their one man creating an intense state of trust, vulnerability, depth, idk.
Let me know if this was helpful or if this is obvious to you guys. I love your comments so much! Thank you so much for writing to me. Also you can let me know negative feedback as well and if you disagree with what is being said or are annoyed.
And if you've gotten something from my videos and want to buy me a coffee or send me a note or a tip, I would greatly appreciate that.
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Thank you so much for watching and commenting!
-Victoria
Видео What do women WANT and WHY: 7 core, foundational sexual desires of women explained канала MyNonLeatherLife
The video that changed my life: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GPHPVvKoZDI
Books I think everyone should read: https://tinyurl.com/4tu5pc32
From my in depth analysis of my own fantasies and also the themes I have observed in popular culture movies, tv shows, books and romance novels that resonate with women I will explain to you 7 things that answer the age old question What Do Women Want and WHY.
1. They want to be a wild stallion who can't be tamed except for by the strongest alpha man.
WHY? The more alpha you are as a woman the more alpha your guy has to be. The strongest guy is the guy you can count on to give you and your offspring the best chances for survival as well as a good chance of having strong genes. Knowing you have warded off weaker guys and attracted only the strongest guy capable of taming you creates an intense mental mindgasm.
2. They want masculinity
WHY? Men were the key to her safety and protection in less civilized society and can be again if things were to devolve here due to their superior strength on average. Women want their best bet for someone CAPABLE of protecting them and their offspring. The best bet is a guy who can handle himself in society and among other guys and rise to the top or at least higher up on the pecking order. Those qualities that allow him to rise to the top are seen by women as masculinity.
3. They want ownership by one man-the fantasy underneath monogamy and true love.
WHY? It's safest to raise a baby under the protection of one strong man who is very devoted to you and your offspring. Women feel this pull and longing for union with one strong man who will protect them and keep them and the baby safe. They crave deep devotion, union, and respect for this one man. This is the fantasy of "true love" that women are lured to like a moth to a flame.
4. They often crave an even darker side of ownership that veers towards objectification, control and other darker things for their femininity and beauty
WHY? Bad guys can protect you just as well as the good guys. Maybe it is a trait some women inherited that allowed their ancestors to survive abusive life situations or even be attracted to these powerful strong but bad men and scenarios, like mice attracted to cats.
5. They want competition over them and for them by men.
WHY? Competition allows the fittest to rise to the top and show off their traits. This display of these traits is extremely mentally satisfying for women.
6. They want aggressive, wild, intense passionate sex
WHY? It's truly living, it's exciting, it's an emotional roller coaster. Also I believe women often crave a sexual "story line" to engage their brain to the maximum. When the story line mirrors these deep primal fantasies that they often have deep down it is maximally explosive for women.
7.They want deep emotional trust and vulnerability to heal deep wounds they hide
This is the one societally acceptable deep female desire. Romance is based on this desire. So conveniently I believe women hide all of their fantasies usually but this one. Then men get the wrong idea thinking this is ALL women want. This one is as kinky as any of the others and they do crave it. But it is not ALL they crave. But deep vulnerability is acceptable for women to crave for whatever reason. The other darker ones are much harder to admit.
WHY? I don't know. They crave being sexually healed by their one man creating an intense state of trust, vulnerability, depth, idk.
Let me know if this was helpful or if this is obvious to you guys. I love your comments so much! Thank you so much for writing to me. Also you can let me know negative feedback as well and if you disagree with what is being said or are annoyed.
And if you've gotten something from my videos and want to buy me a coffee or send me a note or a tip, I would greatly appreciate that.
venmo: mynonleatherlife
paypal: mynonleatherlife@gmail.com
Email: mynonleatherlife at gmail
Buy me a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/mynonleatherlife
Thank you so much for watching and commenting!
-Victoria
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