DARVO | The Abuser's tactic of blame-shifting that causes you to blame yourself for the abuse

This video is about the concept of DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender). This is the mechanism of the blame-shifting that manipulators and abusers do when they are confronted. The result of this tactic is the abuser absolves themselves of responsibility and the target internalizes the blame. This is why most survivors of abuse feel like it was their fault.

The DARVO article: https://dynamic.uoregon.edu/jjf/defineDARVO.html?fbclid=IwAR2bqZnMegINqifdOKxxGk-AM1SlloFtBNNB6b_ChT5bApuxRJsZFsDBYcQ

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